if the boy you love consistently asks for sex but refuses to treat you like the goddess you are, leave him
 

if a girl whispers "slut" as you pass her in the hall, don't get angry. Embrace her and embrace your title
 

if you find yourself full of self-loathing because of your uncontrollable emotions, remember that it's beautiful to feel
 

if you realize you've bled through onto your pants, don't be ashamed. Remember that you're more metal than 50% of the population
 

if you get stares because of your fishnets and heels, stare right back
 

if you find yourself more comfortable with masculinity, embrace it, but remember that femininity is something to be respected too
 

if a boy tell you that you wear too much makeup, remind him that you don't wear it for his pleasure
 

if he expects a blowjob but won't go down on you, leave him

mark your territory with lipstick

never be ashamed of your body

love other women
 

and if one day, you have a daughter, remember to teach her that she is strong, beautiful, and to never surrender. No matter what.