The healthiness shoudln't have to be forced, 

it shoudl come naturally,

like how you both met eachother naturally.

One shoudln't have to ask for respect, 

it should just be know to give it,

even if you don't know them just yet

you should give the respect that you know you would want.

The healthiness in a relationship starts from each others respect,

if there is no respect to begin with then there is no relationship to grow from.