forgiveness is like releasing guilt and hatred in and out your life.sometime forgiveness is a really hard to deal with.you have all type of memorie that hinders your mind. But i have figure that forgiveness come from God without you forgiving yourlself thing began to collapse in your life.but allowing the maker of all earth the universe help you thing begin to go smoothly.God is a God of love he seek for you when your not seeking for him.i have learn in forgiveness love is needed to be involved.God change me through forgiveness.i was a girl seeking for love, but i figure love didn't let me down i was just seeking for a unsual love that i wasnt ready for. most things that happen in my life were meant to happen because that was a way that God could have access to me.but forgiveness helped me a lot with God and my life.i think life without forgiveness we are lost.but always remember as God has forgiven you wouldnt you forgive others who need to be forgiven because your not hurting them but yourself