Love is More Than a Four-Letter Word
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someone once said,
“if a writer falls in love with you,
you can never die.”
i am immortal -
or,
i was
i met her on a weary August day
and i did not know what to expect:
she was as bittersweet as the morning after Christmas
and as alive as the innumerable pens she stashed in her bag,
i did not know
that her presence would shine like the cosmos she held so close to her heart
or that when she looked up from a book that she would never smile;
so much of her i learned
later
when it was too little,
too late
they say that boys only want one thing,
and all i wanted was her
i begged, and i groveled,
“beggars can’t be choosers,”
they say,
but all i wanted and needed and chose
was her
i loved her feelings and her salty skin
and the way she held a blank space
when all i saw in myself was scribble after scribble
of incorrect grammar
and broken promises
and i loved the way she made the world feel so small
when we hadn’t seen any of it all together;
but when i use loved, i’m wrong, again,
(she was always the right one)
and she measured my worth,
and deemed my “good enough,”
she soothed my atelophobia
[my fear of never being good enough],
my claustrophobia
[my fear of being far too close, too much],
she cured by philophobia
[my fear of being in love],
she tinkered and twisted and figured me out,
struggling to read the instruction manual
i’d stashed away for so long,
and after she tinkered and twisted and figured me out,
she held me up:
i was her doll,
but everyone knows
power comes from the weakest link
and i saw it, all of it,
her white hands,
strangling the mug of steaming green tea attempting to wash her away;
her tapping feet,
tapping, moving, shaking, never ever still;
her eyes, never seeming to meet mine,
as if she couldn’t bear to see me with an imperfection -
and she explained it wasn’t me but her
and that she wasn’t the right one,
she was wrong all wrong,
and i told her,
i told her that what if all the parts of ourselves you and i hate
folded into each other
as lovers
before midnight
and morphed into the blackest of our eyes
and what if all these parts were nothing more
than all these reflections:
of how we were and are and are yet to be
and what if
these were nothing more than reflections,
of how we should have been, supposed to be,
what if
all these parts were nothing as we are,
at all.
but i am not the poet for her.
in the end,
she was an impossibly difficult test
and i spent most of my time trying to find
the right answers
but all i was to her was a rejection letter stating
“come back in 5 years,
(maybe then you’ll be good enough for me this school)”
and even though it scares me,
every time something knocks on my window,
or even makes a tiny noise,
i rush to the window, craving to see if it’s you.
because the truth is
you flashed into my room,
like the sun escaping the stars.
the curtains blocked you out
too soon
(there was nothing i could do).
but sunlight always finds
a way
to stay for a while,
a while,
before the stars come out
to play
and when fear creeps into my mind and says,
“aren’t you afraid of tomorrow?”
Yes, I am deathly afraid.
but self-consciousness and
leaving
and the left are back again and
i miss those who aren’t gone
and those who have been for so long and
i am so afraid
for what my tomorrows hold
----
the truth is,
i wish he could have felt
half of what i really said,
and twice as much as he really did;
because a writer isn’t
beautiful
or poetic
or even lovely,
she is cold and ravaged
and i tore out his
heart.
but before that weary August day,
i didn't know that
love is more than a four-letter word