Its all up to you. 

Wether you breath or blinkWether you smell good or you stinkWether you accept reality or act like its imaginaryWether you chose to win or to lose wether you chose to take the opportunity or let it fade in the wind because your scared to fall. Wether you chose to run or walk wether you chose to talk or draw in chalkWether you chose to watch the news or get some snooze...Everything you do is up to you. Not me. Not her nor your mother. While we may influence wether you do it or not.. Its still all up to you