Growing up
“It’s a girl!” Her mom said exited
Her dad disappointed, written on his face
He wants a boy, a man, not a girl
9 months later
A pink bow is placed on her head
A giddy nurse presents her to a tired mom
The mom is happy, she has a princess
Her dad a mix, excited but sad, he wanted his football boy
A daughter, 1, she learns quickly
She walks only 1 and a half
She knows her puzzles
She can sound out her words
Her mom starts to differ
She wanted a princess not a mathematician
She wants her girl to be like other girls
Her mother gives her a dress
The daughter cries until she has pants
Both her parents now disappointed
Her mom and dad try again
They have twins
1 boy 1 girl
Both are happy
One a princess
One a man
The little girl is forgotten
Now forgotten
She clings to her toys
Learning to play by herself
3 years later
Now 4 in daycare the girl thrives
Still alone but she has smarts
One day she picks up a little bat
She has fun playing softball
Recess is fun
She goes to pick up the bat
Her teacher stops her
“You're a girl not a boy. Put that down.”
She gets put in the fake house area
She looks out the window
She wishes for the first time to be a boy
1 year later
The girl starts kindergarten
She’s ecstatic
She quickly climbs to the top of academics
She gets 10/10 on her first test
She runs to her mommy
Her mom unsure of her daughter quickly stops her
“You are a girl not a boy.”
“Don’t be smart no boy will like you”
The girl quickly becomes sad
She wants friends
So she won’t be smart
She’ll be girly
2 years later
Now 7 she asks her dad to play baseball with her
He declines
“Baseball is a boys game not a girls”
“ Go play dress up”
“be a good girl”
She walks away hurt
While playing dress up with her mom and sister she looks
In the distance there’s a football
It’s her dad and brother
The girl decides she won’t be sporty
She wants people to like her so she won’t be smart or sporty
She’ll be a girl
Obedient, small, caring, silent, behaved,compliant, polite
A girl turns to a teen
She is into makeup
She wants to play baseball
Longs for stem
She declines both
Be a girl
Femine
She talks about boys with friends
She looks out of the classroom window
Sees the sports
She has an epiphany
Running base to base
The wind in her hair
The dirt churning to dust under her shoes
Now 16 she has her first party
A boy walks across the room
He stares at her
Eyes rake across her
Dread encases itself into her
Fear pounds her
She takes a sip out of her solo cup
Warmth spreads
Chill wins
Head goes dizzy
The next day
Glimpses of what happens
A boy happy
A girl broken
No one will learn
The end always ceases to repeat
17 worried about her grades
C’s growing into her
She knows she can do it
She lies
She needs to be in the box
Her siblings get the attention
She works for her life
No sports
Just work
Excited to be free
Scared to leave
Senior sunrise
The best memory
19
Now in college
She can try
She gets her grades
She runs the diamonds
She flys over her life
She lost contact with her family
She’s secretly happy
Majoring in law
Gaining her degree
A distant dream
24
She has her degree
Flounces around the stage
Electricity courses through her
She grabs the keys
Her apartment
She owns
Her money
She meets a man
He’s nice to her
25
She’s scared
Stuck in a room
He locked her
She is pulverized in her mind
He uses her
She lies to everyone
Repeat
Repeat
Repeat
She runs
The dark shading her
The branches opening for her
She runs
She goes to the police
She’s finally free
26
She’s in the office
Her therapist talks
She is incompetent to focus
She looks at the clicking clock
She is healing
27
She blows out the candles
Happy birthday
She is safe
Secure
Law, now her 9-5
She met a man
He treats her right
She loves him
He loves her
They are happy
In love
She finally gets her happy ending
Now 70
A grandmother
Happy and grateful
The woman looks out into the horizon
She finds peace