Asking the Right Questions
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“How do boys look good without makeup?”
Because society hasn’t told them they look bad without it
Because their value is not based on their looks
Because they are worth more to the world
Than a pretty face
And a tailored body
Because they don’t have to change their face
To please the opposite gender
Their lives revolve around more
Than being an object of affection
Objectified
Women are seen as things,
No more alive than pretty paintings or
Tools used to get satisfaction and entertainment like
A television or
A magazine
“Why was she so upset about being raped?”
Because you somehow can’t understand that
Because men think that sex
Is no big deal
Because men think that sex
Is nothing more than a good time
Because men think that their body is important enough
To change the status of a woman
From the only two things a woman can be:
Virgin to whore.
Because our society regularly jokes about rape.
Our society
Jokes
About
Rape.
Because our society does not view the violent attack of women
To be a serious matter
Because our society mocks women who have undergone years of therapy to recover
From a crime that is celebrated among the attacker’s friends
Because this crime is so often committed
That men think nothing of it.
They believe
That they are not wrong
If I had the power to change something
I would change the people
Who ask these questions
I would change the thoughts
That allow them to make sense
I would change the answers
To all be the same:
That’s a terrible thing
To ask.