Rites of Passage
I was 9 when women told me, men are amazing at dine and dash they’ll take their fill
And leave you the bill
Then they come back
Only to take the centerpiece you found solace in
I pruned my emotions
As my body bloomed
Budding breasts don’t compress into trendy form fitting tops
But ribs do, crushing our lungs so we can barely breathe
When I was 14 I walked home after school
An old man gave me his lustful "compliment", I still can't take the main street
When I was 15 it was physical
When I was 16 I was reminded that the heat from unwanted skin contact
Is nothing compared to eyes
You can’t prove eyes have done anything to you
These are the rites of passage
The invisible architecture of becoming a woman
But Girls, I bring you this blooming sense of hope
You don’t have to accept the fiery asphyxiation in the back streets
Do not crush down,
Breathe: Show them your new blueprint
This oppression is an ancient thing
An ugly thing that doesn’t belong in the garden we're plotting