I ask you, what does it mean to Love?

“That feeling that makes you smile whenever you see me?”

Relationships and Love are

Passion

Intellection

Coping

Understanding

Hardships

Complications

Challenges

Mountains that need to be climbed

Maps

Quests

What does this all mean?

Love

Joy

Faith

Understanding

Communication

Team work

Organization

Relationships are not easy,

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To be in a relationship is to form a contract

Lawyer up and Decide

Boundaries

Limitations

Rules

Exclusions

And,

 consequences

Think of relationships as houses

Without a game plan, a foundation, a blueprint, there is nothing but a shack

With the first sign of wear it crumples and fails.

You need:

Direction

Action

A Plan

Most of all;

 TEAMWORK

To me love is more than a feeling

It is work

 HARD WORK

To Love, you must first Love yourself

 With this self-love comes the understanding of how to truly Love another

You need to know them more than they know themselves

Love and relationships

Are more than that box of chocolates

Or those red and white roses

A Glass of Wine

It takes time

Patience

Understanding

Action

Adventure

A journey

Created and developed

By you and I

We choose the building materials and design

Sometimes we don’t agree

But

That is fine

Because…

Sometimes a good relationship can falter and fade with time,

And…

Thankfully

 with a little TLC it can be made anew

One thing that I always hold true

Because I love you

I will never give up hope

Never need to join Match!

Buy a cat

Unless you want a cat

That is fine to

Because

Honey

Forever

&

Always

I

Love you <3