"A Poem To Myself"
Do you remember those summer nights
The ones when it wasn’t too hot or chilly out
The ones when the air was fresh
And the skies were a beautiful deep blue
Those summer nights when you were an only child
And your parents would take you to Hayte Park
You’d all walk there because it wasn’t that far from the house anyway
Do you remember when you were the only kid there on those nights
And the park was so huge back then
And the world was so huge back then
And on those nights, you owned the park
It was your park, it was your world
You owned the world, it was all yours
You were young back then
And life was much simpler back then
But you knew that the world was yours
You knew you were destined for greatness in life,
In this world
You were young but you were aware
Aware of your own talent, your power
Your voice, and all of its booming glory
You knew in time, you’d make your mark on this planet
Flashing forward
You’re a slight bit older than what you were
And the parks aren’t so big anymore
And parks don’t make up your world anymore
And the world itself, isn’t so big anymore
And you aren’t on top of it all anymore
But you’ve still got your sass
It’s stronger than ever now
As it flows through your veins
In your body
In the way you walk,
In the way you talk,
In the way you carry it all on your shoulders
With your head still held high
You still know your worth
And you’ve got morals now
You told yourself you won’t grow up to be someone’s maid
You told yourself you won’t grow up to be someone’s toy
You said
You won’t be bossed around because you’ll be the boss - someday
Flashing forward again
Somehow, on your ways of becoming the boss,
You lost your voice to all of those who wanted to take it from you
You lost your morals
You lost track of your target - what you were aiming at
You lost yourself
And that was the biggest loss of them all
When you lost yourself
You said you wouldn’t be anyone’s toy
Yet, here you are
Always being played by someone
And you allow yourself to get played
To be played
All the time
You said you wouldn’t allow yourself to end up being anyone’s maid
Remember
But look at you now, sweeping those tears away
Look at you - sweeping yourself away for the room to be occupied
By someone else
Look at you - cleaning up after everyone
Look at you cleaning
Up from the messes that aren’t even yours
Do you know who you are anymore
Do you remember who you were
Now - a - days,
You sell yourself short for his approval of you
For his applause
For his love
But -
You never held his heart in your hands
Because he never had a heart -
So you never got his love
And you still have not gotten his love
But you keep telling yourself he’ll come around
And the only time he wants to be around is when
You make yourself small enough for him to be larger than he actually is
You wait on him to care
And, he does
Just not much
Just not enough for it to show
But you didn’t ask for him to buy you the world
Only to be someone worth your time
Only to be someone you would waste time for
Someone you’d waste time with
Because being with him, time is endless
So you can waste all the time you want
And even after you’ve done that,
You’ll find yourself still waiting
To hold his heart in your hands
And they say time is patience
But haven’t you been patient long enough
And you’re still waiting
For the moment he decides
He will see you
Not just look through you
The moment he won’t look past you
But to you
And in his eyes, he’ll have all the world’s love for you
All the love you should have had for yourself
In his eyes, in the moment he will see you,
You will have already left
You will have already faded
Giving him every last bit of you until
There isn’t any bit of you left to give him
You will have cried yourself rainstorms
And his umbrella will have finally broken
And he will finally be drenched
In all the tears filled from the pain in your eyes
He will finally feel that pain
But again, it’ll be too late
And you’ll have moved on
Just to go through that experience
Over and over again
With a new person each time
Until you can’t take it any longer
And then you shatter
As if you weren’t already broken
And you try your hardest to remember the times you
Were once complete
Once whole
And you remember those nights
Those summer nights your parents took you to Hayte Park
And the park was your world on those nights
And the world was a big park on those nights
And you like to remember them as the good - ol’ -
Days
You like to forget that on those nights you were still small
You had made yourself small
Smaller
So the world could feel much larger
But don’t you remember those nights
When it was just you and your father at the park
Oops,
I meant just you at the park
And the shadow of a man who was supposed to be
Is supposed to be
Your father
Supposed to be your protector
It was the shadow of a man who was barely a man
And it was you - just a child
Wanting to be loved
You never got that love, I’m sorry
He was supposed to be the first male to love you
But he couldn’t even love himself right
So knowing you are his child, how could he
Love you
He gave his love to the things that brought him closer to death by the
Day
He wanted to die, maybe
It seems that way when you look back on those nights
You were stuck raising yourself, caring for yourself
On the nights you taught yourself
To lead - not follow
Unless you want to drown in your sorrow
Like the way your father drowned in his sorrow
And is still drowning
The way he is being swallowed by cigarettes and alcohol
Constantly
And you,
You became sassy
To avoid being sad
You gave yourself orders so you wouldn’t be misguided
But your heart lead you to your lover
The lover that never loved
You
And you say it’s okay
Because you’ve felt this pain before
The pain of not being loved
So you always tell your lover you have enough love for the both of you
To share
Even though you never have enough love for yourself
You cry until your eyes go from rainforests
To deserts
And all the life in you dies
And all your pain numbs until you feel nothing at all
And that is how you teach yourself to move on
You get over everything by becoming nothing
Leaving nothing to remember
And that is how you forgot yourself
That is how you lost yourself
You were
Once a person
Now
You are only the remains of the person you used to be
You set yourself on fire
And the wind carried your ashes
Until it couldn’t bare you anymore
Or bare your burdens anymore
You let the world swallow you whole
Until you became nothing but bones left
And you told yourself
This is what love feels like
And that is how you loved yourself
That is how you cared for yourself
That’s how you still care for yourself
It’s how you still love yourself
It is how you move on
It is how you become your own
Boss
You knew you were destined for greatness
~Taureyahna