Not My Title...
E-B-O-N-Y
E-B-O-N-I
Different vowels same sound
Different words which is right
E-B, just two letters
E-double B-I-E
Another nickname
Which is my name, when you spell me wrong what should I do, when you mispronounce me What should I say
When you say you right there with the braids, how should I react?
What should I do when you refer to a group of people who look like me as “you people”?
Is there a God given right for you to call me that
To disrespect me
To ignore me
To treat me as inferior
I don’t think they understand.
My name is mine
There can always be plenty people like me
But it relates to me; it defines me; it makes people remember me
Makes me unique,
It adds on to my black girl magic
It tells my story,it makes me legendary
They may ask what does EBONI mean?
Look, online. Do you see a definition for the correct spelling of my name E.B.O.N.I.
Is it there?
What do you find? Well I find something saying, “The word you've entered isn't in the dictionary. Click on a spelling suggestion below or try again”
Those words “try again”, what does that mean?
Am I not important
Am I so irrelevant that there’s not even a definition for my name
The word E-B-O-N-Y means very dark or black
Although this is the incorrect version of me, it ties into my identity
Prideful
Black
Not African-American, but BLACK
BLACK PRIDE
I have a say
I am IMPORTANT
I MATTER
I’M not a SHADE, but a person
Don’t just look at me and characterize me by anything else rather name my name EBONI
Does anyone truly care about Trayvon Martin, or the many others killed
MLK, Malcolm X, Rosa Parks, Harriet Tubman
You remember these names right?
These IMPORTANT BLACK PEOPLE
What I seem to not understand is why you do not know my name
I AM just as relevant as them
WE as a COMMUNITY are important
DO NOT:
Single us out!
Pity us!
As they say, Blacker the berry the sweeter the juice, well WE are the darkest of them all which means
WE are intelligent self sufficient people
I AM a beautifully made person with determination and goals in life
Bequeathed successfulness and creativity all the way down towards me
US as Black People are sought out to be a THREAT
a CHALLENGE
WHY is that?
Does my skin intimidate you
Does my confidence intimidate you?
Does my hair intimidate you?
Does my voice intimidate you?
Does my walk intimidate you?
Does my VERY PRESENCE IN THIS ROOM intimidate you?
IF so, tell me why…
I’m different and I embrace it
I’m unique and I embrace it
I’m EBONI and that’s what you’ll remember me as
NOT as:
EVONY or
SHORTY or
THAT BLACK GIRL WHO JUST DANCES or
ANYTHING THAT IS NOT MY NAME
YOU, can NOT define me
YOU, do NOT get to call me whatever you please
YOU, are to respect me
YOU, are to appreciate me, my melanin
YOU, are to remember me as EBONI.
E-B-O-N-I, Eboni Singletary.