The Nod
Eye Contact,
lower your head,
occasionally followed up with a rhetorical "What's good?"
The person on the receiving end does the same
and then moves on.
To outsiders such body language is misunderstood;
It wasn't instructed during childhood
nor a topic of previous conversation
It's a greeting partly intuitive and off of observation
a unique salutation
fraternity-esque
primarily used in a situation where few blacks exist
Don't misconstrue the concept,
Born and bred in the south
Saying hello to everyone is the norm,
This acknowledgement differs in meaning however
It's more of a:
"Hey I see you
Keep working hard
You got this!"
All said with one simple nod
Many of my white friends witness the exchange
expressions of bewilderment follow:
"Who was that? Do you know them?"
I respond 'no' yet I do in a sense,
At Penn State, we represent 4 percent.
Some from the hood, some immigrants
Scattered like specks of black pepper on country grits,
As a minority, you gain comfort from seeing someone who looks like you,
Their struggles, your struggles
Their triumphs, your triumphs
Never a ritual of pity
But rather of privilege
Because despite how far we must go to close the gap,
We've made it where most couldn't
We don't stress
Our situation is blessed
And we continue to progress