The Law of Ruins (All I Need Is To Be Where I Am Known)
I was thinking about you in an abstract way
when first faced with the urban sprawl of spillage
draped over the ruins
which were, in fact, built to become just that
many years before us.
I was thinking about you, and thinking about the the way the city I grew up in
is all I will ever really need to feel home and to feel drenched in myself
and in u s,
that its crack and its groan and its constant noise are more u s
than the two of u s
have ever seemed when examined alone, placeless, together and without context.
It is a well known fact that you can miss a place
even as you inhabit it
surrounded by stone and sculpture and the remnants
of stories last touched
in what by now must only be a memory
But we want it nonetheless: We want to be touched by the last touch
that brought us into being–
shaped us into something without weight or bulk but instead a reverence
for all the intricate ways in which we have allowed ourselves to be wounded.
This is hard
the way veins streak through marble and crack it open to reveal
something
I always thought would be blue.
This is belonging and knowing you may lose it
with any given hitch,
crafted and delivered creator to son
leaving him alone in the vastness with a knowledge transferred
through nothing
but the metaphors of all fathers before him.
A weak dog is a dead dog
in the wild of war.
I am wondering what life will be like when I step out of this place,
when this city is a backdrop to ancient thoughts
when I cannot find your chest no matter how hard I may look.
I wonder what you think of this
when faced with a relic we will never understand
documenting a history
we will never be a part of.
You have walked through the badlands with a simplicity
in your gait
that would make your father cry,
that would mellow this war into a particularly fruity wine served at a meal with friends
as they talk about Michelangelo, how he saw his piece within his stone,
how he cracked it open and said assuredly “blue”.
Packed around the table, we must say this in very simple words
and you do so for me
murmuring over your meal and into my ear
that this was all built to be ruined.
You say it so softly that I know it is an act of faith, granting me your thoughts
without the volume needed to hear them first yourself.
In this way, I alone will reap the spoils of what has been destroyed,
as was intended
all along. Nature,
now a synonym for violence.
We build to watch it fall, of course, says the sculptor
and all are equally shocked to hear that this is not, as we thought, a game of immortality.
Instead, this is an acceptance of memories
by soldiers, glowing carmine in the desert pitch. No one is coming out of this intact,
and it is sublime.
I am still thinking of you
long after the murmuring has ceased
and I am filled with elementary terms
for a theory
you don’t seem to fully grasp.
All I need is a spot at this table and to be close to something.
To be in a place so dark and so warm
it could never cease to be,
a place in which you would recognize me in my fullest of forms without hesitation.
I am thinking of how you would be blue
cracked open
of how I would piece you together and carve away at your joints,
creating something smooth and many years away from destruction.
The etching would be purposeful, engraving my faith into your back:
A dog is a soldier
and burning was always part of the plan
we are not weak, we are ruined–
and that, of course, is nobody’s fault at all.