Why must we sustain ourselves and reframe ourselves to bes the perfect image of what others defines as perfect?

Why cant we realize that enough is enough? To tell ourselves as young girls that our dreams and our aspiration matter. So much that one day they will inspire! inspire the lives of others so that that too can see and recognize the means of self-worth.   

Too busy knocking one another down to busy to recogonize a frown. a frown that needs to be uplifted. 

Why cant we re-write the rules? The rules and statistics on what it truly means to be SUCCESSFUL , IMPOWERED, and STRONG!