Ten Things You Should Know Before Becoming an Addict
1
When I was little
I was too young to understand anything
But bubbles, blankets and balloons
I would play in my crib all day while my father would light up in the next room
2
Nothing is harder for a mother than telling her daughter that the money she saved in her piggy bank was taken by her father for drugs
3
I can’t smell weed anymore
I don’t pick up on it when someone smokes it
Perhaps it was because it was all that was around me when my father was around
I have become blind to the scent
4
When my mother got married again
I hated my step-dad
I thought he would leave us too
That he would abandon us just like my father did
5
No calls were ever made
Birthdays
Christmas
Easter
Never
6
No child support either
My mom had to work four jobs to support us
And I still hate her a little inside for never spending time with me
Even though I know it’s my father’s fault
7
When I turned eighteen
I finally got a call on my birthday
I got a call
Only to ask why I hadn’t called him
My mom had hired a private investigator ten years earlier to try to find him
8
When I wrote a letter to my father
His response was to call me his “lost princess”
As if I didn’t know where to go or what to do
He said that things were not all his fault
He told me all about his new family
9
When my father came up to visit me
He took me to the fucking zoo
The animals weren’t even out
At least I knew my way home
10
My father came back into my house
Saying he was clean
With a bag of weed in his coat pocket
Saying he would never abandon us again
But I had learned to let go
Finally