Purple Teddy Bears
since i was little
purple teddy bears filled my room.
i would make them wear my favorite fabrics,
fabricating a story of how they met a new friend
or bent the rules a bit.
i have been telling stories since i started speaking.
speaking of dreams and ideas - i was held back by nothing.
when i was young, i was brave.
i had no idea about the world that twirled around me.
but then i had to grow and the flow of life was altered.
i faltered from the judgments
and the self-consciousness,
unkind words slurred together
into a weather storm
bombarding me with hatred.
anything spoken was analyzed and criticized,
so i learned to stay quiet.
silent voices hide louder minds
mine might explode any instant.
we no longer speak our minds
just minding our own business
because they don't care what we have to say.
playing is no longer about fun,
it's protection.
barriers go up and connections break,
bonds flake apart,
even the tightest friendships are strained.
but there’s an easy fix.
well there’s the trick
it's easy in concept
but honestly it’s true.
you need to believe in yourself.
i know i know
it has grown old and cliché
but look deeper,
see the truth
we all are holding something back.
we all have a locked box
hidden in the blackest parts of our souls.
i must not hold back what i want to share,
i have to be driven to have the strength to be different,
i need to be that little kid who did what she pleased
because the truth is bravery has changed.
growing up bravery was escaping slavery.
it was superman and soldiers,
secret spies saving the world.
hurled from buildings and still stopping the villains.
then i learned of real-world villains - bullies and death.
bravery is standing up to the bystanders and bullies.
courage is when a loved one passes away
and no matter how you react
you are somehow
always
brave.
but then these villains are everyday occurrences
and we are expected to handle them.
praise is no longer handed out to these heroes
for there are worse villains out there.
so then those everyday heroes feel incompetent.
they aren't good enough - not brave enough.
those heroes are all of us
and we are enough
we are warriors in an infinite daily war
maybe you came to school today
you checked out at the grocery store
you shared a smile with someone who needed it
you got on that airplane
you texted that one person
you answered a question in class when no one else would
i will find the daily bravery otherwise ignored
i am far beyond any constricted definition
the true definition of bravery is me.