Being a black girl is..
Being a black girl is having your hair touched and pulled and grabbed at like you're a walking petting zoo and it's prime time at a 5 years olds birthday party.
Being a black girl is being the bombest code switcher the world has ever seen.
Being a black girl is "you'll find a guy in college"
Being a black girl is find a guy cute at lunch and the first thought to cross your mind is "I bet he only like white chicks"
Being a black girl is walking to the Wal-Mart hair aisle and needing to put on glasses to find your "ethnic hair care" section
Being a black girl is standing up for every black man KNOWING half of them won't do the same for you.
Being a black girl is having a few white friends and wondering if you're the token "black friend" of the group
Being a black girl is having "what you mixed with?" be every guys favorite pick up line.
Being a black girl is being fetishized by your boyfriend. But it's okay because you're his "Nubian Carmel butter nut truffle with coconut oil drizzled on top"
Being a black girl is having to fit the mold perfectly and break out of it at the same time
Being a black girl is a multimillion dollar brand having your shade be "online only" or completely nonexistent
Being a black girl is typing "for black girls" in every Google search
Being a black girl is not being believed for 20 years.
Being a black girl is "r.kelly only like 12 year old black girls, he's wildin!" and that was the funniest joke everyone ever laughed at for years
Being a black girl is worrying "if I get kidnapped will they even try to find me?"
Being a black girl is laughing everything off because you don't want to be to come off as the angry black woman
Being a black girl is having your culture stolen but being "dramatic" when you try to get it back or protect what's left of it.
Being a black girl is being called a monkey while Becky is in Dr. Miami's office paying $50k to look just like you.
Being a black girl is either "team nicki" or "team cardi" because God forbid we celebrate both.
Being a black girl is crying at night because the world doesn't care about you
Being a black girl is laughing loud enough for the world to you're happiness
Being a black girl is the hardest job in the world that nobody applied for, except for Rachel Dolezal. But I'm happy to be here anyway
Being a black girl is loving yourself because nobody else will
Being a black girl is instantly having a connection with that one girl in the back room bc we can give each other THAT look.
Being a black girl is the greatest experience I'm happy to share with a select group of people.
Being a black girl is painful, vulnerable and complicated.
Being a black girl is fun, delicate, strength and beautiful.