I once saw two childs stand face to face & take hold of each other's hands. As one would fall, the other would struggle to keep their balance. They explained that life was like that demonstration, that if we tried to help others along our journey, they would only bring difficulty, so we had to be selfish. However, I believe that if we find the right people to take on our journey, we might not struggle, almost falling, but turn our walk along the path into a graceful dance that moves n'sync. It might not seem "correct" to those on the outside, because they are not accustomed to such things, but to those in the circle of dance, they will feel elation as they continue their way down the path, perhaps even faster & more joyously than those who prefer to go alone."