Do You Really Love Me?
A healthy relationship?
Is one of trust
You cannot let your past define your present
You cannot assume that because you were hurt once before, that it will happen again
To trust is to be open with someone
To have confidence in someone
To have faith in someone
To rely on someone
To trust is to believe in someone.
A healthy relationship?
Is one of honesty
Honesty and trust
Which work together as one
You cannot trust when there is no honesty
Honesty is to be truthful with someone
To be open with someone
Honesty is to be sincere.
A health relationship?
Is one of safe communication
Safe communication is being able to speak freely with someone
To not be afraid of what they might think
Or say
Or do
To not second guess your words
To not have to think before you speak
Safe communication is to not only be able to speak,
But to be able to listen.
A healthy relationship?
Is one of compromise
Compromise is being able to work with one another to come to a decision
To talk things through with one another
To listen and communicate
Compromise is to share.
A healthy relationship?
Is one of support
Support is to be there for one another
To listen to each other
To give advice to each other
Support is to assist however you can.
Because I Love You does not justify your hurtful actions
It does not excuse the fact that you are hurting someone
Controlling someone
Damaging someone
Abusing someone
Someone that you claim to love
The words "I love you" are strong
They have a positive meaning
And that meaning is taken and changed into a means of demeaning or degrading someone
Because I love You is not an excuse
Love is shown through actions, not just words
Do not say "I love you" unless you mean it
A healthy relationship?
Is real love
And if someone truly loves you
Then you will know
By the way they show it.