Because I Love You

Rebecca Fratangelo

 

Because I love you, we talk about the good,

And the bad.

Because I love you, I respect you,

And myself.

Because I love you, we spend time together,

And apart.

Maybe not a lot,

but all of it precious.

Because I love you, I appreciate you,

And you me.

Because I love you, I don't get caught up in the bad,

I reminisce on the good.

Because I love you, we argue,

Not fight.

Because I love you, I don't compare myself to others,

Or you to them.

Because I love you, I make time to make you laugh,

And you make me grin.

Because I love you, I support you,

And you support me.

Because, I love you.

One definition of a healthy relationship is when two people develop a connection based on mutual respect, trust, and honesty, but it is that and so much more. A healthy relationship is one where both parties feel safe, comfortable, and respected. A healthy relationship is when they can trust one another and not take advantage of each other. A healthy relationship is when you laugh, cry, and smile together. It also is full of support, equality, separate identities, good communication, and a sense of playfulness.